


unSEXpected: Managing Delusions & Delusionships

unSEXpected: Talking about Porn

unSEXpected: Drawing the Line Between Compromise and Settling

Shorties: An insider look at QUT’s student-run film festival

unSEXpected: Understanding Kinks and Fetishes
“I cannot Dom for the life of me.” We’re sitting on my couch, wide-eyed and giggling. You are bathed in soft orange light, a glass of wine in hand. We are, yet again, talking about sex, and no detail is…

unSEXpected: A Memoir on Sex after Sexual Assault
*content warning: sexual assault We are at a launch party, drunk and giddy, and I am leaning into you with a wide smile on my face. You say the words “I love you, sweetie” with eyebrows furrowed the same you…

unSEXpected x Respect Week: the Intimacy of Foreplay Vs the Casualness of Hook-Up Culture
Foreplay is a series of acts that build sexual arousal and pleasure, through physical touch, and mental and emotional stimulation. In the game of sex, foreplay is considered the pre-game. Like most things in life, it works on a case-by-case…

unSEXpected x Respect Week: Emotional Safety in the World of Online Dating
I’m convinced dating apps are parallel worlds built into our phones with off-the-chart ratings of audacity. In person, no one would just randomly hand you a mirror selfie of themselves in tighty whities, unprompted (I hope), but online? It is…

unSEXpected x Respect Week: Learning to be a Better Communicator
I often write about the importance of communication, and every time I do I feel like an incredible hypocrite. Not because I don’t believe in what I preach, but because I’ve discovered I’m not all that great at practicing it. …