unSEXpected: Understanding Kinks and Fetishes
“I cannot Dom for the life of me.” We’re sitting on my…
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unSEXpected: A Memoir on Sex after Sexual Assault
*content warning: sexual assault We are at a launch party, drunk and…
unSEXpected x Respect Week: the Intimacy of Foreplay Vs the Casualness of Hook-Up Culture
Foreplay is a series of acts that build sexual arousal and pleasure,…
unSEXpected x Respect Week: Emotional Safety in the World of Online Dating
I’m convinced dating apps are parallel worlds built into our phones with…
unSEXpected x Respect Week: Learning to be a Better Communicator
I often write about the importance of communication, and every time I…
unSEXpected x Respect Week: A Guide to Safe Words
Safe words are code words used to communicate one’s physical or emotional…
unSEXpected: Exploring Forms of Intimacy
We gather in the kitchen while the party roars outside. There are…
unSEXpected: The Intimacy Card Game Instructions
Let’s talk about intimacy, baby! unSEXpected: the intimacy card game is a…
unSEXpected: Discovering the Sexual Self by Unlearning Shame & Re-Framing Sexuality
We’re sitting on a hill after class, trying to make sense of…
UnSEXpected: A Deep Dive Into Sexual Synaesthesia
It’s a weekday and we’re having a drink on the couch with…
